23 May 2009

Oliver





Oliver is doing just great. The consultant gave the all clear last night. Every thing that should be working at this stage is working - he has just been taken off all moniters. He is feeding three hourly, which given that he is Sam's son, is to be expected. We are so pleased and relieved!

I shot these photos around tea time last night - the flash was irritating Oliver a bit so I attempted some shots in the low light - I'm quite pleased with the result. The neo natal intensive unit is a remarkably tranquil place (when there isn't a crisis) and these photos seem to have picked up the mood.

22 May 2009

Oliver


Oliver has done wease!
One day soon someone is going to grumble that he keeps on peeing in his nappy, but today, let us rejoice in the miracle of the passing of urine - a great and beautiful and much underestimated thing!

Oliver's progress

Oliver is tracking along ok - he had the evening without oxygen support last night
- his lungs are still crackly (this is an advanced scientific term that most of you won't understand but it empowers me to use it)
and his kidneys have yet to do the right thing and release the right stuff in the right direction (again, another advanced...I'm full of it today!).

21 May 2009

Oliver!














Oliver has arrived late on 20 May! 5lb 9oz for the imperial ones among us. It all got a bit traumatic with an emergency caesarian and his needing to be resuscitated - so he's in the neo-natal intensive care unit - he seems ok but it will take a while for everything to stabilise - so we keep praying. Carley is doing ok and Sam is all grins.

20 May 2009

pigs


Isn't it a shame that in New Zealand pig farmers require laws to police how they care for their animals - laws that get down to exactly what the minimum width of a sower cage should be and how many days a sower can be left in the cage at any one time...

These standards might permit the highest yield of offspring possible, and might fatten the pigs faster for the market - but there are other standards that should be foremost in farmer's minds, these are ethical standards that cannot be measured by a ruler, where the well-being of the animal is the paramount standard.

Pigs are intelligent animals and I believe that they should be farmed in such a way that their access to open space is the minimum standard.

18 May 2009

Zerubabbel

He's still holding out... thus he gets to keep the working name a day or two or three longer. Sam's recent grumble about sitting around in the maternity hospital is "I've had to be mature for two days in a row!"

16 May 2009

Zerubbabel


My son Sam is about to be a Dad. The arrival of Zerubbabel (Anne's and my working title for the wee guy before he is formally named) was supposed to be yesterday - he has other plans and his poor mum is going through a lot of prodding, poking and waiting.

Among other things, I anticipate he is soon to be the first baby on my blog - a great honour indeed!

15 May 2009

Mart 48


Yep, that day is fast coming when people officially mark the fact that I have got older. I like the presents, but why the cards that rub it in, why the 'there, there' pats on the head from my children, why the fuss? And to top it off, the mother of my first grandson is in labour! I am too young to be 48, and too young to be a grandfather!

Anyway, as is my custom, I have put together my CD collection of the songs I have enjoyed the most over the last year. They are not ranked, rather, they are mixed. They either flow nicely into each other or provide startling contrasts, though the first track is rather sublime and deserves the first place.

On the whole the songs are mellow - maybe that is the aging thing - and there are some songs from the 1970's by The Moody Blues & Supertramp, and even a track from the 1960's from The Beatles. It has been a year of collecting Beatles, Supertramp and Moody Blues Cd's - I have loved these bands for a long time but had stuff on tapes and LPs. My favourite albums by each band are: Abbey Road (though A Hard Day's Night is a close second), Crisis? What Crisis? and A Question of Balance. However, the Beatles track I have chosen is off Magical Mystery Tour, and the other Supertramp song was originally on Even in the Quietest Moments. I haven't found a copy of Rodriguez's Coming From Reality CD yet, otherwise I would have had his fabulous To Whom It May Concern on the list.

I also want to express a word of lament - it is harder to get Cd's in this country. This love affair with downloading is undermining the CD industry - I (probably operating from a getting old perspective) love handling the CD - I love browsing the sleeve - I love the tactile placement of the CD into the machine. I love being able to put a collection of Cd's together in the machine and pushing 'random play', and I love removing one of the Cd's if it doesn't quite fit. I love these things in the way I loved LP's.

A few songs didn't make the cut because they didn't fit onto the CD - one of them, Isn't it Amazing by Hothouse Flowers has been on a past compilation and it should be on here as well - and Falling Slowly & Motherland were also on last year. That is a tribute to the quality of their music as I have listened to those tracks many many times and still love them.


Of course, this is a U2 year with the release of No Line on the Horizon. There are four songs that could also have made the cut - they do make it hard!


Where possible, a sample of the song is included.

Mart 48
#1 moment of surrender - U2 [from No Line on the Horizon]
The Edge has created one of the most beautiful and simple guitar solos on a track with Bono in fine voice and a signature U2 theme well-explored. The best track since With or Without You? - I think so but my son Josh thinks I'm nuts - he likes Get On Your Boots - of course!
#2 magic - bruce springsteen [from Magic] http://www.last.fm/music/Bruce+Springsteen/Magic/Magic
I love this album - I'm a relatively recent Springsteen fan - it seemed that the Trade Towers needed to come down before I was ready for him.
#3 falling slowly - glen hansard & marketa irglova [from The Swell Season] http://www.last.fm/music/Glen+Hansard+and+Marketa+Irglova/_/Falling+Slowly
#4 live with me - massive attack [from Collected] http://www.last.fm/music/Massive+Attack/_/Live+With+Me
This man's voice is stunning - a moving love song.
#5 unknown caller - U2 [from No Line on the Horizon]
An unusual song - a nice surprise on the album. I wonder if it is a sign of where music might go in the future.
#6 question - the moody blues [from A Question of Balance] http://www.last.fm/music/The+Moody+Blues/_/Question
There are many songs I could have chosen - I'm a pre-1972 Moodies fan.
#7 sandrevan lullaby - sixto rodriguez [from At His Best] http://www.last.fm/music/Rodriguez/_/Sandrevan+Lullaby check him out at http://www.sugarman.org/index.html
I was introduced to Rodriguez (who only produced two studio albums) in 1982. He comes from the social comment school of songwriters. He has quite big following in South Africa but never really made it in his native US.
#8 motherland - natalie merchant [from Motherland] http://www.last.fm/music/Natalie+Merchant/_/Motherland
Great social comment about the spread of concrete - Josh the skater likes concrete but I don't.
#9 two of us - supertramp [from Crisis? What Crisis?] http://www.last.fm/music/Supertramp/_/Two+of+Us
I found Crisis... in the excellent Penny Lane second hand CD store here in Christchurch (http://www.pennylanerecords.co.nz/) - it is probably the least valued of the wonderful series of 1970's Supertramp albums, but one I love to listen to as a whole.
#10 cash - the panics [from Acoustic - various]
I don't know anything about this band, but this track, accidentally ripped onto my songs list, has become a favourite.
#11 cortez the killer - neil young [from Live Rust] http://www.last.fm/music/Neil+Young/_/Cortez+the+Killer
The track on my collection is a live one - Will Jensen (late of Sunset Cinema http://www.myspace.com/sunsetcinemanz and now in the rather unusual Brains http://www.myspace.com/brainsmorebrains) had this track playing a lot over the summer. And to his delight, Neil Young played it at Big Day Out.
#12 hearts and bones - paul simon [from Concert in the Park]
I have had the original track on the Hearts & Bones LP since it came out in 1982, and now have the CD on order. Sublime!
#13 breathe - U2 [from No Line on the Horizon]
Brian Eno rates this and Moment... as two of the best U2 tracks he has been involved with. That's quite a statement from the co-producer of The Joshua Tree and Acthung Baby!
#14 i am the walrus - the beatles [from Magical Mystery Tour]
John Lennon at his wicked best. My recent access to this song has been though the movie Across the Universe, Bono's excellent version of I Am The Walrus from the movie nearly made it instead of the original.
#15 from now on - supertramp [from Anthology] http://www.last.fm/music/Supertramp/_/From+Now+On

08 May 2009

quote

"Grown-ups never understand anything for themselves, and it is tiresome for children to be always and forever explaining things to them." Antoine de Saint-Exupery

08 April 2009

Christ at the centre

Colin McCahon



An excerpt from my Passion Sunday address:

The Trial
What was the choice?
For Pilate: Do I set free a murderer or an innocent man?
For the crowd: Do we call Jesus Lord or do we demand him crucified as an imposter?



We have to choose not out of our certainties – because some things are not always provable using the many formulas and devices of thinking…

Is Jesus Lord or is he not?

Is what he says, and who he is, the truth?
In the trial Pilate asks Jesus ‘what is truth?’ – Jesus remains silent. Jesus remains silent, for Pilate to work it out,
for the watching crowd to work it out and for us to work it out.

‘Grace and truth come through Jesus Christ,’ says John in his prelude…
If we want to know the truth – it has a face and a name…
I AM… the alpha and the omega – the One at the beginning and the One at the end.

Jesus dares us:
Let me provide the basis by which you address what you understand to be true.
Let me be the framework through which you build your worldviews.

I AM the way the truth and the life
– let me be at the centre.

And from the centre
I will walk to the deepest place of human suffering on order to be with you.

Easter words

Roddy Hamilton produces some great material on his Mucky Paws page: http://abbotsford.typepad.com/abbotsford/

Here's one that Anne and I are working with this Easter:

Rebellious Welcome
When our table is open only to members
may we find a new table
When our community is open only to those who are polite
May we find a new community
When we sing the songs familiar only to us
May we find a new song
O that the Gospel were for nice people
the beautiful the famous and the clean...
But God
you welcome the lost
you feed the hungry
you honour the prostitute
you kiss with the leper
you eat with the sinner
you break bread with the stranger
It is a hard Gospel for our world
all closed up against what we do not know
protective of what challenges us
avoiding what we do not understand
It is a hard gospel to be open
welcoming
affirming
growing
faithful
redeeming
But it is the gospel nonetheless
When we use our faith to shift us away from the stranger may we find a new faith
When we use the church to avoid what happens on the outside may we find a new church
When we use the Bible to divide us into sheep and goats may we find a new bible
Hear us
O God of welcomes
O God of grace
So be it

25 March 2009

Apparatus of religion


Excerpt from a recent sermon I preached at St Stephen's, reflecting on St John's version of the cleansing of the temple

...Because of Jesus, the apparatus of religion is no longer necessary (the term 'apparatus of religion' was coined by Bishop Lesslie Newbigin in his excellent commentary on John's Gospel, The Light Has Come) John, in his gospel, understands this and emphasises it. T
he apparatus of religion takes many forms. In this story the apparatus is the temple, and its associated activity, along with King Herod’s great work of rebuilding and renovation (so far 46 years in the making and still with scaffolding). The work of renovating the temple was an act of humans securing for future generations the fact of God’s dwelling among them in this holy transcendent place – a place where Jewish men and women, along with certain converted Gentiles, could gather where God has provided the ‘mercy seat’ where sin is put away through the ritual sacrifice of animals.
The problem of the apparatus of religion is that the place and ritual become necessary for God’s mercy to be received. The temple is human-made (and in not too many years it will be destroyed by the Romans) and the rituals act as boundaries for who can received mercy. In the temple cult was God’s mercy freely available to the Gentiles? No. Nor was it freely available in the earliest part of the church’s life where up until Acts 9, salvation in Christ was understood as only being for the circumcised and their families.
In how many ways has the church through the ages put religious apparatus in the way of what God has been doing in Christ? Un-baptised infants not being able to be buried in the church graveyard… the unbaptised not welcome at the Table… children not able to receive Holy Communion… women not able to fully participate in the church where Paul himself claims that there is no longer Jew nor Gentile, slave nor free, women or men, all are one in Jesus Christ [Galatians 3:28]. Yet how often do we put impediments in the way?
There has been an example this last week of the ways the Christian faith has turned into a religion. Speaking in Africa, Pope Benedict commented that the availability of condoms somehow increases the spread of HIV-AIDS. I guess that the thinking is that if condoms are easily available then more people will have sexual intercourse and therefore the potential for the transmission of HIV increases. But isn’t it more logical to concede that while the use of condoms might indeed mean that more people are having sexual relations, they are at least having protected sex, are therefore are much less likely to transmit the virus?
The real point the Pope is making is that the HIV virus would not be spreading at such an alarming rate if people were not having sex prior to marriage and not with anyone other than their spouse once married.
Perhaps he is also indicating that the virus would hardly have spread at all under such constraints. But of course that is theoretical and idealistic, and not how the world is in reality, and this is what makes the African announcement considerably controversial.
Is it reasonable to ask ‘Can the church adapt its message in light of the reality of people’s lives?’ It can, but only if it can also let go of some of the apparatus.
The point I am trying to make in light of Jesus cleansing the temple, is that when Christianity is a religion – with institutional rules and laws, such as what I believe to be a misguided notion that the only purpose of sexual intimacy is for procreation, then Christianity becomes something other than what it should be.
Christianity becomes a prescription of laws to be obeyed and a guide for ethical living rather than a joyful response to live freely in the salvation that Jesus has secured for us, despite the imperfectness of our response to him.
The newspaper this last week added a shocking story to illustrate the difficulties associated with the kind of comment the Pope made. In some country in recent years a 9 year old girl was found to be pregnant with twins. It transpired that she had been impregnated by her stepfather. Her doctors performed an abortion. The church leaders acting out its condemnation of abortion, excommunicated the girl and her doctors, but did not excommunicate the stepfather. I am not offering an opinion about the rights or wrongs of abortion, but reflecting on the apparatus of the Christian church, which, acting as a religion, condemns one action as a sin worthy of excommunication, but does not consider the prior action as being morally reprehensible enough to also be condemned in the same manner.
And more than that, what is the foundation of the notion of excommunication? On what grounds does the church exclude people? This is the kind of apparatus of religion that has become attached to Christianity that I believe is incongruous with the teachings of Jesus Christ, who taught and lived a gospel of love, grace, forgiveness and restoration.
The apparatus of religion goes when Jesus comes to town.

12 March 2009

Breathe

I'm really enjoying the lyrics and song Breathe from No Line on the Horizon.
It wasn't an initial track that caught my attention - but the reference to the cockatoo is one of the album's most humorous moments.
The song is a signal to us all of what posture we take into life, especially when we are bombarded by bad news stories, worst case scenarios (bird flu, global recession etc), and people peddling self-help ideas based on their doom-based theories. 'There's nothing you have that I need' is a great line for people who seem to think they have to have everything and get devastated when inevitably the bottom falls out of their extravagance.
There is an alternative: 'got a love that you can't defeat' is a great line to use as you poke your nose at the doomsday soothsayers who are alive and well in the church as anywhere. The closing lines sum up the God-centred alternative ... have a read:
"Breathe"
16th of June, nine-oh-five, door bell rings

Man at the door says if I want to stay alive a bit longer
There’s a few things I need you to know
Three

Coming from a long line of
Traveling sales people on my mother’s side
I wasn’t gonna buy just anyone’s cockatoo
So why would I invite a complete stranger into my home
Would you?

These days are better than that
These days are better than that
Every day I die again, and again I’m reborn
Every day I have to find the courage
To walk out into the street
With arms out
Got a love you can’t defeat
Neither down nor out
There’s nothing you have that I need

I can breathe
Breathe now

16th of June, Chinese stocks are going up
And I’m coming down with some new Asian virus
Ju Ju man, Ju Ju man
Doc says you’re fine, or dying
Please

Nine-oh-nine, St. John Divine on the line, my pulse is fine
But I’m running down the road like loose electricity
While the band in my head plays a striptease

The roar that lies on the other side of silence
The forest fire that is fear so deny it
Walk out into the street
Sing your heart out
The people we meet
Will not be drowned out
There’s nothing you have that I need

I can breathe
Breathe now
Yeah, yeah

We are people borne of sound
The songs are in our eyes
Gonna wear them like a crown
Walk out, into the sunburst street
Sing your heart out, sing my heart out

I’ve found grace inside a sound
I found grace, it’s all that I found
And I can breathe
Breathe now

02 March 2009

No Line on the Horizon has arrived


I’ve been enjoying the first few listens to No Line on the Horizon and it has been fun. I managed to secure the poster and Griff the dog seems to at least like the poster!
As I expected, U2 have gone to another frontier with their music. Yes it is still them but they have kept growing. They number among the few bands/musicians who keep offering something refreshingly new each album. Others that come to mind are/were The Beatles and David Bowie. Some like Bruce Springsteen (and please understand, I am not complaining!) have taken lyric writing to new heights and at times matched them with new sounds, but basically, there is a well-trod style of music on offer. And others like The Rolling Stones have never moved on musically from their better days in the 60’s and very early 70’s. But U2 they just keep on getting better. Remember to listen to this music up loud!
The collaboration with producers Brian Eno & Daniel Lanois has also made it to a number of song-writing credits, and these number among the best tracks.
Here are my initial impressions song by song :
No Line on the Horizon: A welcome return to some of the Euro-style sounds of the brilliant Zooropa. I always thought that that sound was something special and it is great to see its return in many of these songs. Here’s an interesting thought and theological challenge – is Bono suggesting that the girl is the Spirit and that the Spirit puts no lines on the horizon – no distinctions, and changes everyday for us? I’ve always struggled with the line that God never changes if it means that we try to be prescriptive about how God can or cannot act. I admire God’s ability to meet me up close or far away, being there believing in me when I’m doing what I should and when I’m wallowing in what I shouldn’t.
Magnificent: Bono and Edge’s lyrics exploring the theological theme of love/God leaving a mark, even a scar, is a great reflection on the call on us to be faithful despite the inevitable wounds we will get if we are getting following Jesus right. Best line: “This foolishness [the cross?] can leave a heart black and blue, only love…can leave such a mark, but only love…can heal such a scar.”
Moment of Surrender: A mellow beat with more theological richness: “It’s not if I believe in love, but if love believes in me.” This a great antidote to the evangelical overemphasis on us having to do something to be right with God. Surrender is a great U2 theme from their earliest days and well-explored here in one of the album's best tracks.
Unknown Caller: “Cease to speak that I may speak, shush now.” My initial favourite song – beautiful guitar, great singing and something very special in the ending... Turn it up loud, follow the words, hear the call to ‘shush’ and let God speak, and then… an organ warming up to Edge’s distinctive simple guitar playing…a recognition perhaps that that’s what we’ve been getting over the years, God speaking through the distinctive U2 sound.
I’ll go crazy if I don’t do crazy tonight: I haven’t found my way into this song yet. It has too much of the sound of All that you can’t leave behind in it, or Crumbs from your table.

Get On Your Boots: lovely Edge guitar and vocals. The first single, a wonderful video and the catchy song of the album serving to open the doors to a new audience just like The Fly, Discotheque, Elevation & Vertigo. Actually I think that if you put all of these songs together they kind of work out to be the same. A nice point though: that men stuff up the world (submarines and gasoline) and the greed and war escalates, and its time for the women to take over – get on your sexy boots!
Stand up Comedy: A grand Led Zeppelin-style opening, great music and a wonderful call to get in the frame and do something about standing up for love – of the faith hope and love Jesus variety. The line "God is love, and love is evolutions best day" is a thoughtful no-lines-need-to-divide contribution to the endless and mindless creation vs evolution debate that seems to absorb modernism. Bono’s self-depreciating line: “Josephine be careful of small men with big ideas.” is a bit of fun, but also a truism - Napoleon was short, Bono is short, come to think of it, so am I! But I like the call Bono makes to soul rockin’ people to come on stand up (say Yes) and then sit down (lay down) for God’s love.
Fez-Being Born – named after the city where the early recordings of the album were made starts calmly with the distant cry ‘Let me in the Sound’ and then follows with some more of that lively Euro-style beat reminiscent of Kraftwerk’s great Autobahn, with a hint of U2’s New Year’s Day, before turning into something quite new – the voices together and birth. I wonder if this should have been the first track – it reminds me of the impact Zoo Station had when I first listened to Achtung Baby – a new sound – the stretch out into something almost out of reach like a high note Bono has to be in the right mood to hit. This reaching out for what seems ungraspable is part of U2's genius - musically they go there but so too they do with their lyrics. There is a poetic simplicity to the words of Fez, and this song is for me the albums highlight.
White as Snow: an unusual song from U2 – commandeering an old folk melody and finding new words. It is quite special – faith, doubt and the realisation of the ‘lamb as white as snow.’
Breathe: Musically still to grow on me, but I love the line: “I’ve found grace inside a sound, I found grace it’s all that I found, and I can breathe, breathe now.”
Cedars of Lebanon: moody, thoughtful, and the boys sing well together again.
No Line on the Horizon 2: ends as it starts.

24 February 2009

Gran Torino


Anne and I went to a free screening of Clint Eastwood's latest movie Gran Torino yesterday. (It was free in that my sister and her partner had given us two movie passes!) What a movie!

Clint Eastwood is at his snarly best trying to live in his changed neighbourhood after the death of his wife but surrounded by people of other nationalities and small-time gangs.

Next door to him is a family of Hmong immigrants (from the Vietnam, Laos, Thailand area). Slowly these people break through his defences to the point where he acts, in a stunningly selfless act of redemption, to rid them of an element who will never allow them any freedom. The redemption theme is multifaceted in this movie. Eastwood's character, Walt Kowalski finds a way towards healing the scars from his Korean War experience, he begins to find his faith thanks to the persistence of the local Catholic priest who proves to be more than you might expect, and his neighbours who he considers his enemies prove to be closer than his family. The climatic redemptive act is for you to find out, but for me, it has the scent of the gospel all through it.

Eastwood at 78 is reported to have said that this will be his last role in front of the camera - I hope not, but maybe this movie is the redemption of Dirty Harry. Maybe it is also indicating a way forward for his own people as they look upon those they consider their enemies.

The Good Life

Do you recall the Story of Stuff that I posted on my blog last year?
The same outfit have just posted a 3 minute reflection on youtube called The Good Life
I encourage you to take a few moments to watch it. Click here: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=McvCJley78A

20 February 2009

'no line on the horizon' pre-review


Neil McCormick - very long-time U2 friend, writer of 'U2 by U2' and "I was Bono's Doppelganger' and rock writer for The Telegraph has penned a very good pre-review of the new U2 album due for release in 10 days (I'm counting)... here's an excerpt...


"...what a place for a band to be, in orbit around their own myth, making music that bounces off the inside of a listeners skull, charged with ideas and emotions, groovy enough to want to dance to, melodic enough to make you sing along, soulful enough to cherish, philosophical enough to inspire, and with so many killer tracks it might as well be a latterday greatest hits. It is, at the very least, an album to speak of in the same breath as their best and what other band of their longevity can boast of that?"

I can't wait!

Your name is safe in the mouths of those who love you.


I did the talk at the Commencement Service of the Rochester & Rutherford Hall at Canterbury University last night. R&R is a residence hall with around 180 students - I'm one of the part-time chaplains there.

Here is an excerpt...
A friend sent me an email with some quotes from children on love… some are hard case and some are quite profound…
Karl - age 5 'Love is when a girl puts on perfume and a boy puts on after shave and they go out and smell each other.'
Chrissie - age 6 'Love is when you go out to eat and give somebody most of your French fries without making them give you any of theirs.' Emily - age 8 'Love is when you kiss all the time. Then when you get tired of kissing, you still want to be together and you talk more. My Mummy and Daddy are like that. They look gross when they kiss' Bobby - age 7 'Love is what's in the room with you at Christmas if you stop opening presents and listen.' Lauren - age 4 'I know my older sister loves me because she gives me all her old clothes and has to go out and buy new ones.'

This one in particular stood out…
Billy - age 4 'When someone loves you, the way they say your name is different. You just know that your name is safe in their mouth.'

I think the reading we heard from Isaiah is fundamentally about God saying that our names are safe in his mouth –
I have called you by name and you are mine – whatever goes on – the ups and downs, I will be with you, I will never leave you or abandon you.

Whose mouth is your name safe in?
How might you minimize the risk of someone using your name in an abusive manner
or in a way that diminishes you?


As a church minister I get to do a few interesting things – one of the highlights was when I was invited to be a part of an evening series of talks aimed at the Year 10 girls and their parents, on the subject of sex.

The other speakers were talking about body and health things but the Principal wanted someone to talk about values and stuff like that, and I was asked. What an opportunity!

The reaction from the girls when I mentioned anything to do with sex was really quite wonderful… and the reaction from the parents was equally good.
The girls went ‘ooh’ and the parents… well, they tended to look at the floor!

I figured that if the minister dared to talk about these matters in a frank and open way then the girls and their parents might find it easier to talk
– because it is better to be able to talk about it than have it treated as something shameful.

Among the things I put to the girls were these observations:
Guys see having sex as a conquest more than girls do
– do you want to be a notch in some guys belt?
Guys are more likely to talk about their sexual exploits than girls
– do you want to be talked about in that way?
Guys are more likely to name their sexual partners
– do you want your name being broadcast in such a way?

I was talking to a bunch of girls but what I was saying is equally relevant to guys…
Do you want to be the kind of guy who treats women as objects to satiate your desires?
Would you want your life-partner to also be understood as some sort of trophy in another guy’s cupboard of memories?
Would you like it if your sister or daughter was understood diminished in this way?

The point is this: Is your name going to be safe in the mouth of the person you are thinking about being intimate with?
Be careful. In the journey of finding yourself, which is so much of what university life is about, don’t lose yourself.
Don’t settle for something less just because you now have incredible freedom.
In what ways can you let the words and actions of ‘I love you’ always be something precious in your life.

12 February 2009

thoughts on balance

I got a bit excited on Sunday... (in the sermon that is)...
"Balance. The Giver of Life calls us to a life of faith as a response to all that is given – balance.
I will be your God – and you will be my people. “Hear, O Israel: The Lord our God, the Lord is one. Love the Lord your God with all your heart and with all your soul and with all your strength.” [Deuteronomy 6:4-5] Balance – I and Thou. And, “Love your neighbour as yourself.” [Leviticus 19:18] – more balance.

We also have a sense that we creatures are to live in balance with the creation – there has to be some balance in how we live so that this earth can continue to sustain us.
There are many signs that we have are not living in a balanced way.
We pollute the air and are seriously undermining the delegate structure of the earth’s atmosphere.
We take from the land more than we give back to it.
We seek short term profit at the expense of sustainable living, and we expect others to have less so that we can have more.
Love your neighbour as yourself is a call to balance.
And God balances things… w
here we are cautious God is reckless
– a party thrown for a lost sheep,
a boy welcomed home,
a party and people invited from the edges of the town…
a woman allowed to pour precious oil on his feet as she wipes them with her hair.

Where we offer a half-measure, God counters with cup running over.
Where we say no to people God says yes.
Where we are half-hearted God counters with total self-giving.
Where we say ‘I will love you if…’ God says ‘I love you anyway!’

The unforgiveable is forgiven,
the betrayer is kissed,
the weak are held up and the strong have a few truths pointed out.
Balance.

Not blandness, not mediocrity, not the soft-option
– but an extravagant counterculture of grace.
That’s God’s way – that’s the way that the church,
called into being by Jesus, is to live – extravagant grace.